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Sweet November

Now that Thanksgiving is upon us I am reflecting on what I have experienced throughout this decade. As we close this year out we enter a new chapter that will be defined by the acceptances we take and the dreams that we chase.

I am going to be brief with my post. I am just touching base and connecting with those that are on my journey with me. Your outlook is EVERYTHING! The perspective you view life is how you are ultimately viewed! I was too negative in my own life. I saw the good in everyone but myself! To paraphrase the late Ana Marquez-Greene a Sandy Hook victim "I was sucking out my fun sockets" I take care of my responsibilities  yet I'm living life! I am constantly evolving and building my brand. But I had to solidify my character first otherwise life would be all a facade.

I will not give any energy to nonsense. I don't have that type of time.....I am on a mission in my pursuit of happiness. I just crave honesty. joy and accountability in every area of my life. Own your shit. Integrity matters alot. Aint nobody perfect but God but be about your business and your word your bond. No shade but nobody ain't hating on nobody they can see through for real. I state my age because with it became wisdom. I've seen alot in this years.


Ok I will chat again soon. Tyler Perry who is amazing, brilliant and blessed used to write blog posts often before he had to dedicate his life to uplifting our culture. His words inspired me. I pray mine help someone to heal. My elders lived a long time through the struggles that define my children. It takes a village. I hope my words reach and inspire you.

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